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Falling Awake Webinar Introduction
Dave introduced the Falling Awake webinar and explained that the recording would be posted by noon the following day, encouraging participants to complete the feedback form to help improve future sessions. He mentioned that Bill Rinse would be his co-presenter and that Stan Lankowitz, co-author of his books, would be a special guest. Dave briefly discussed his recent downsizing experience and move, emphasizing the importance of carefully evaluating items during the downsizing process. The webinar’s purpose was to help participants make a significant and lasting difference in their lives.
Overcoming Fear: A Process Approach
Dave led a discussion on strategies to overcome and eliminate fear, focusing on processes rather than the content of fear. He emphasized the historical context of fear, noting its utility in avoiding life-threatening situations but its potential to be exaggerated in modern times. Dave shared personal experiences with fear, particularly his concern about his wife’s Alzheimer’s, and highlighted techniques he uses to manage such fears by focusing on the present and likely outcomes.
Overcoming Fear Through Presence and Support
Dave shared his personal experience handling fear by staying present, celebrating life, and finding humor in challenging situations, including caring for his wife with Alzheimer’s. Bill, an executive and personal coach, discussed strategies for managing client fears, emphasizing the importance of questioning assumptions and choosing more constructive conversations. Both speakers highlighted the value of seeking support from coaches or others to address and overcome fear.
Overcoming Fears Through Reflection
Dave led a discussion where he shared strategies with Bill, who uses them professionally, and asked participants to write down their fears, worries, or problems they want to focus on. He encouraged them to take time to reflect and write their thoughts, and requested that they turn on their video. Dave planned to address any questions or comments from the group and select someone willing to be coached about their fear.
Overcoming Personal Fears Together
Participants in the meeting shared their personal fears, with Brij expressing concern about running out of savings while seeking full-time employment, and Jasmine discussing her fear of not resolving issues with her father and being unsuccessful due to jurisdictional complications. Norma highlighted her fear of failure, success, and getting unstuck in life, while Angela shared her lifelong fear of loving and accepting herself. Dave encouraged everyone to listen to the coaching with a focus on applying it to their own lives and taking action to overcome their fears.
Overcoming Financial Fear and Anxiety
Brij discussed his financial fears, including running out of savings and retirement funds, which are causing anxiety and preventing him from taking full action in job prospecting and skill development. He acknowledged that while these fears are distracting, they sometimes lead to desperation in his actions, contrary to his previous coaching to focus on offering his best without worrying about outcomes. Brij also noted that his current situation has brought humility and spiritual peace, which has encouraged him to be more creative and resourceful, though he still struggles with fear of failure when taking specific actions.
Financial Resilience and Mindset
Dave and Brij discussed the benefits of financial resourcefulness and living on less, with Brij sharing his experience of tracking expenses and managing on a third of his previous income. Dave emphasized the importance of maintaining a positive attitude and trust in one’s ability to handle difficult situations, even if faced with financial challenges. Brij expressed concerns about his social security being insufficient and the potential need to consider extreme measures like borrowing against his home or taking on lower-paying jobs, while also acknowledging fears of losing face and experiencing shame due to his current financial situation.
Overcoming Financial Fear and Anxiety
Brij and Dave discussed the fear of financial instability and its impact on self-worth. Dave encouraged Brij to focus on his intrinsic values and contributions to others, rather than relying on material wealth for happiness. They explored the idea that Brij could survive without a high income, and he acknowledged this perspective helped reduce his anxiety. Brij expressed a desire to contribute to his daughters’ future needs, such as weddings, but Dave reminded him that this desire is separate from his current financial situation.
Self-Management and Presence in Work
Dave led a coaching session where he discussed the importance of managing conversations with oneself and emphasized the value of being present during video calls. Bill shared his perspective on Bridge’s intelligence and work ethic, suggesting that “voluntary simplicity” might be a better approach for Bridge when tackling complex tasks. Participants were encouraged to reflect on the session and provide feedback, with Angela mentioning technical difficulties with the reaction button.
Overcoming Fear for Personal Growth
The group discussed their experiences with fear and personal growth, with Angela sharing how facing her fears helped her improve her health and professional success. Dave emphasized that fear is selfish and encouraged focusing on others, while Elizabeth and Brij spoke about letting go and trusting themselves. The conversation ended with a poll about attendance at the next webinar on July 3rd and a request for participants to invite others, with many expressing interest in both attending and sharing the event with others.
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