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  An invitation
The point of this book
The Success Strategies in a nutshell
Treat these ideas as tools
Do a book reconnaissance
Did you do the exercise?
Keep a visible record of your dreams
Create a personal time capsule
Write your testimonial
Choose your way to use this book
Getting the most from this book
This book is not for everyone

Success Strategy #1
Determine what you want
Design your life—now
Trust your desires
Create boldly
Imagine that time and money are no problem
Clarify what you want to have, do & be.
One set of values
Create your life line
Start with what, where, when & who
Expand your creations
Free the future from the past
Create the future from nothing
Create the distant future
Prioritize and categorize

Success Strategy #2
Tell the truth
Perform an honest self-evaluation
Talk to a chair
Take a First Step
Speak candidly
Ways to just speak
Make and keep promises
Ways to keep a promise
Practice total transparency

Success Strategy #3
Move toward love
Experiment with “It's OK”
Practice loving yourself
Solving your problems won't hurt
Be your own mentor
Eight ways to keep a problem
Embrace problems and dance
Five reasons to celebrate mistakes
Move from conflict toward love
Choose freedom of forgiveness
List your resentments
Promise to forgive
Give compliments
Bombard others with attention

Success Strategy #4
Take responsibility
Pretend that you create it all
Practice taking responsibility
Manage your interpretations
Separate observations from interpretations
Reconsider the reasons for your behaviors
Escaping victim mud
Speak from “I”
Ask for what you want
Climb the ladder of powerful speaking

Success Strategy #5
Lighten your load
Bliss is our natural state
Let go of your equations
Release or rewrite the equation
Release your pictures
Create an alternate picture
Hello stress, goodbye distress
Release worry
Release physical tension
Breathe to relax
Scan your body to relax
Surrender
Practice surrendering

Success Strategy #6
Focus your awareness
Do what you do, be where you are
Four ways to “be here now”
“Be” with an orange
Become a camcorder
Meditate
Genius is in the details
Pay attention to time
Pay attention to money

Success Strategy #7
Listen fully
Listening - a way of life
Strategies for full listening
Send or receive
Befriend criticism and complaints
Find the request in a complaint
Accept compliments

Success Strategy #8
Choose your conversations
Conversations create our world
Choose your next conversation
Advertising - enter the conversation with care
Stay aware of conversations
Balance your conversation space

Success Strategy #9
Change your habits
Maybe it’s just a habit
Three steps to changing a habit
Turbocharge the three steps
Consider the costs and benefits of a current behavior
Manage your associations
Change a habit by managing associations
Go for substitution, not retribution
Align habits with value

Success Strategy #10
Persist
Stick with it
Keep looking for answers
Think Clearly
Keep looking at a controversial topic
Create motivation
End procrastination
Feel the feeling - then do it anyway
Play full out
Practice playing full out

Success Strategy #11
Contribute
Fill yourself up and give yourself away
Review a past contribution
Take on bigger problems
Open up to bigger problems
Strategies for contributing
It helps to be selfish

Success Strategy #12
Celebrate
Practice the art of appreciation
Go for fun
State what you like about yourself and others
Choose happiness now
Do this book again and raise the stakes
Continue creating the life of your dreams
Keep the Success Strategies alive

Recommended Readings
Index

Acknowledgments
Wanted: Your ideas



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